When people close to you are pressuring you to choose abortion, it can be difficult to sort through your own thoughts and feelings. But this is your pregnancy and your decision.
If you are not ready to have an abortion, do not allow yourself to be pressured into making a decision before you feel prepared. Take time to gather information, ask questions, and explore your options. Seeking help and guidance from a trusted outside source can provide support as you work through your emotions and communicate your desires.
Birthright of San Lorenzo is available to help with your pregnancy-related concerns, with pregnancy testing, practical help, and referrals for everything from prenatal care to financial assistance. We will walk alongside you with love, hope, and zero pressure.
There is never a cost to receive support or services.
Confirm Your Pregnancy First
Before making any pregnancy decision, it is important to confirm the pregnancy. A pregnancy test can provide initial information, but an ultrasound can offer additional details about your pregnancy.
An ultrasound can help determine whether the pregnancy is in the uterus. A pregnancy that develops outside the uterus, or an ectopic pregnancy, can quickly become a medical emergency. An ultrasound can also help determine whether the pregnancy is progressing and appears viable, as well as estimate gestational age. Having this information may help you better understand and consider your options.
You may also receive an ultrasound picture, which some women find helpful when expressing their feelings, desires, and concerns about the pregnancy to friends or family members.
Communicating With Friends and Family
Sometimes friends and family react strongly when they hear the news of a pregnancy. Giving them time and space to process the information may help future conversations go more smoothly.
When discussing your pregnancy plans, consider bringing along a supportive friend or someone you trust. If you are struggling to communicate your feelings, counseling can help you develop a plan to express your wishes and set boundaries with others.
Prioritize Your Safety
If friends or family members become hostile, threatening, or make you feel unsafe, seek help immediately. No one should feel pressured, intimidated, or threatened into making a pregnancy decision.
If you feel pressured into a choice you are not comfortable making, reach out to a trusted outside source for support before making any decisions.
Find Support at Birthright of San Lorenzo
You do not have to face this alone. At Birthright of San Lorenzo, you’ll find more than information; you’ll find people who genuinely care. From free pregnancy tests and emotional support to referrals for prenatal care, financial assistance, housing, and beyond, everything here is designed to meet you where you are and help you move forward with confidence.
Contact Birthright of San Lorenzo today for compassionate support and guidance before making any pregnancy decision.
